Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Insights From a Busy Nanny

My car has become a wonderful place to meet with the Lord for a morning quiet time as I drive an hour to work each morning.

Writing a menu at the beginning of the week to map out all the meals Mon.-Fri. is absolutely essential to my sanity.

Finding the balance between being child-oriented and task-oriented is a challange I long to conquer.

Babies produce dirty diapers more often than wet ones.

The value of "free time" has suddenly increased tremendously.

Five-year-olds can be incredibly adorable.

Picky eaters take a long time to cure.

"Tina" is a name I now answer to...and smile every time I hear it spoken from a certain two-year-old's mouth.

Car windows should always be rolled up when it looks like rain.

Taking care of young children is one of the best ways to learn patience.

People who say mothers have no life have no idea what motherhood is all about.

God's grace is truly sufficient for all things.

There's no place like home - especially at the end of a busy day.

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Miracles in Atlanta

It was Sunday, July 13.
The day after the Virginia Maiden's Quest had ended.
The day before Katelin was to depart for Ukraine.

We boarded our flight in Richmond, VA, all set for several hours of travel, followed by a big Sunday afternoon nap in our own beds.

As we neared the Atlanta airport, where we were to make a connecting flight home, the captain's voice crackled into the loudspeaker, explaining that the airport in Atlanta was shut down due to area thunderstorms. We had been circling in the air, waiting for it to re-open, but since we were running out of gas, it was necessary to refuel at a tiny airport 75 miles away.

No problem. I had an intruiging book in hand, and therefore, didn't think much about being slightly delayed. We had a two-hour layover in Atlanta. I was pretty sure we'd still make our flight.

The minutes ticked by.
At long last, our plane was fueled up and the Atlanta airport was ready to receive us.
I finished the last page of my novel by the time we touched down in Atlanta and checked my watch. 2:30 p.m. Our flight was supposed to depart for Houston at 2:34 p.m. Hmmm... It didn't look like we'd make it - unless the next flight had also been delayed.

As Katelin and I manuevered our way off the plane, into the airport, and over to the nearest moniters, we could only gaze around in utter amazement at the sweeping mass of people swarming in all directions. The main aisle was clogged with a jostling crowd of humanity walking to various gates and concourses. Every chair at every gate was occupied. People lined the walls sitting, standing, lounging. Food and bathroom lines were the longest I'd ever seen. There must have been thousands upon thousands of people everywhere.

Checking our flight status on the moniters, we were relieved to see that we hadn't missed our flight to Houston after all! It, too, had been delayed 3 more hours. Fine. That gave us time to eat an early dinner at a leisurely pace. After a delicious meal at Wendy's, we checked our flight again and saw we'd been delayed another hour. Now, we were scheduled to leave Atlanta around 6:30 p.m. So much for an afternoon nap!

With plenty of time on our hands, we split ways. I headed to the bookstore to browse for several hours while Katelin tried to find a semi-quiet spot in which to make several phone calls. Some time later, at about 5:00, my cell phone rang. It was my dad. He told me that according to our airline's website, our Houston flight had been completely cancelled for the day. Uh-oh. Not good. He advised me to find out what was going on and if there was any way we could get a different flight home. Right.

Quickly locating Katelin, I explained the issue at hand and we dashed off for our gate. Along the way, we noticed that our airline's customer service line was literally half a mile long. Sensing that it might be important to be in that line, I stationed Katelin there while I hurriedly walked the remaining distance to our gate.

After waiting in a short but slow line to be helpd, I learned from the man behind the counter that our flight had indeed been cancelled. He sent me to a different gate for "processing." I hoped this meant that we'd be given a different flight home.

While I stood in line behind about 20 people waiting to be "processed, " my Dad and I kept up intermittant communication via cell phone. He was doubtful that we'd be able to make another flight home on that airline, so he had begun an internet search for tickets on any other airline flying to Houston. I was 3 people away from the counter when Dad called saying he had found 6 tickets left on a Continental flight. They cost $341 each. Did we want them?

Gulp. That seemed an unnessecary expense to me, after we had already paid that amount for the original tickets. I was sure the airline representative I was about to speak to behind the counter would be able to provide a just resolution to our problem. My dad said to call the minute I learned something, so he could purchase the tickets if necessary.

Finally, it was my turn to be "processed." After waiting over an hour in line, I learned that no more flights would be departing for Houston until Tuesday.
"Tuesday???" I asked incredulously. Yes, Tuesday.
"Otherwise, I can offer to fly you to another city," the representative explained.
I told the ticket agent that we could get tickets home on Continental that night; but I wanted to know if Airtran would refund the money of our cancelled flight.
"You'll have to call Reservations to find that out," he said. "Or visit the Rebooking station over there." I looked over my shoulder to where he pointed, agreed to give it a try, and set off for the next long line. On the way, I called my dad and told him that we did indeed need those tickets on Contintental.

"It's too late," he said. "They've already been purchased."
Oh dear. I shouldn't have been surprised. Every other person around me was on their computer or telephone making travel adjustments. It would seem any available ticket out there was being snatched up as fast as hotcakes. "I'll keep working on something," Dad said.
Meanwhile, Katelin was still in the line for Customer Service, slowly inching her way up to the desk and making friends with everyone in line around her.

For another hour, I waited at the rebooking station. Just as I was about to talk to the representative, my dad called again. "I've purchased two tickets on a different Continental flight for you and Katelin," he said. "It will leave at 6:00 a.m. tomorrow morning. I've also made arrangments for you at a nearby hotel. The shuttle will pick you up outside." It was a relief to know that at least we had a flight home. Even though it was for Monday morning, the day Katelin needed to leave for Ukraine, it was better than Tuesday! However, I still wanted to know what Airtran was going to do about our cancelled ticket that we had spent good money on.

When it was my turn, I posed the question only to learn that I'd have to call Reservations to find out! Urgghh. "Okay, fine. What about our bags? We have to leave tomorrow morning on Continental. How can we get our bags?" I inquired.
"Check for them downstairs at baggage," the man slowly drawled.

I dragged my tired feet across the hall to where Katelin was at the head of the Customer Service line after having waited for 3 hours, and explained the situation. "Well, let's just see if we can learn anything here," she whispered. "Lots of people have been making flights or been given refunds." I totally agreed that it was worth a try - especially after she had waited so long to be at the point of receiving help!

We walked together up to the counter where we were greeted by a friendly woman. "Our flight to Houston got cancelled," I began, "and there's no more flights leaving for Houston until Tuesday. But my sister has to leave tomorrow on an international flight, and I've got to get her home in time!"
I wonder if the woman could read the desperation on my face. I was about to explain that we had seats on a Continental flight home but wanted to know about a refund, when she stopped me with a wave of her hand.
"Hold on just a second. Let me do some checking," she said.

And so we waited while she banged away on her keyboard. A tiny flame of hope began to flicker inside me. Maybe, just maybe...

The next thing I knew, the lady was printing out boarding passes and handing them to us with the words, "There's more bad weather scheduled to come in tonight, and I'd hate for you to miss your international flight tomorrow. Here's seats on a flight leaving for Houston right now. You'll have to hurry to the gate. You won't be sitting together and you won't have your bags on the flight, but at least you'll get home."
Undescribable relief flooded my heart. "Thank you SO much!" we exclaimed. "Bless you, bless you, bless you!" She smiled knowingly.

We took off running to our gate, while I explained the situation to Dad over the phone in a few hurried sentences. He seemed convinced he could cancel the tickets and hotel arrangments he had made and said, "You just get on that flight!" At 8:00 p.m. we were actually seated on a flight to Houston! I was still reeling from all that had transpired throughout the long afternoon. Katelin, meanwhile, began to make a list of all the things in her luggage that she was planning on taking with her to Ukraine that she'd now have to re-purchase or do without.

It was another hour before we took off, since we had to wait on a flight attendant to come from a plane still out on the runway! And it was two more hours before we were actually in Houston hugging our grateful and relieved parents. :)

Deciding there was a slim possibility that our luggage just might have made it onto the flight with us, we waited at the baggage carosel, inspecting all the suitcases that glided past while filling our parents in on all the glorious details of the Maiden's Quest retreat. After an hour of waiting and watching, to no avail, we decided we'd have to make arrangments to have our luggage mailed to us eventually, so we set off to find the Airtran baggage office.

Nobody was there. But the room was crammed full of suitcases. Could ours possibly...?
Dad scanned it quickly. Nothing.
Katelin stepped in and began hunting through the bags.
"Here's one!" she shouted gleefully!
Really? It was almost too much to hope for!
"And here's another one!"
Before long, all 4 of our suitcases had been located in the piles.
I was convinced they had been transported via angel's wings.

We got to bed at midnight that night. Katelin left for Ukraine at 3:30 p.m. the next day for her two-month mission excursion.

The moral of this story is that God is still in the miracle-working business.
There is just no other way to describe our experience that long day except for the miraculous working of our loving Heavenly Father.

May His Name be forever praised.
Amen and amen.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Report on Virginia Maiden's Quest Retreat

There's so much to share from our wonderful trip to Virginia last week! It was a special time of reunion with friends, ministry to young ladies, and basking in the beauty of God's creation. Here's a day-by-day description of all that happened, complete with the lovely pictures my sister took!

Wednesday:
Katelin and I flew to Richmond, Virginia, where we were picked up at the airport by our dear friends and retreat hosts, the Sadlers. We had met the Sadlers briefly 3 1/2 years ago at a mother/daughter tea in Virginia and experienced an instant connection. Ever since, I have kept up a steady correspondance with their daughters.
After several years of letter-writing, it was such a blessing to spend time with them in person! What radiant, delightful kindred spirits these precious friends are! Our reunion was a joyous occasion indeed.
The Sadler Family
(L-R) Steven (Mr. Sadler), Lila (9), Ellery (12), Leslie (Mrs. Sadler), Mia (6), Brittany (17), Hailey (15)

The following pictures give a glimpse of the lovely countryside surrounding the Sadlers' property in Gloucester where we were privileged to stay for five days.
After driving through such gorgous surroundings, we pulled into the Sadlers' driveway and saw...

their beautiful home...
the York river flowing at the edge of the backyard...

and the charming "pool house" where our MQ team stayed!

They did so much to make us feel so welcome!
We decided we had arrived at the official Maiden's Quest resort. :-)

Friends together again!

After dinner at the "big house" that evening, all the girls came back to the pool house with us for ice cream!

One of many beautiful sunsets

Thursday:


After morning exercise, we started our day off together with an official MQ pow-wow, determining which projects had yet to be attended and what the order of events would need to be.

Then, we spent time in prayer for the retreat.

Meanwhile, the tent crew arrived and began to set up.


The Sadler daughters proved to be a wonderful work team!

They helped with banquet details,

ironing for Katelin's table decor/napkin-folding class,

chair set-up, and countless other details!
So many helpers made for quick work!

Tara, Kelly, and Elizabeth arrived that afternoon causing the Maiden's Quest team to be altogether again for the first time since the Dallas retreat!

Since most of our work for the day was complete, and the sunshine just beckoned, we had a blast swimming together that afternoon.

Goofy girls :)

After a delicious dinner out at a Thai restaurant that evening, everyone joined together around the Sadler's kitchen table to work on final preparations for the retreat. We sang while we worked and had such fun praising the Lord together!

Stuffing folders...

Rolling silverware...

Kelly helping the little ones tie bows with pretty ribbon.

Friday:

The first day of the retreat dawned clear and bright! After months of prayer for beautiful weather and a cool breeze it was such a thrill to experience the Lord's specific answer to that specific prayer. We couldn't have asked for better weather! And the breeze made the summer temperatures very bearable. He truly does all things well!

70 chairs ready to go

Beautiful flowers to grace the tables

The picturesque "banquet hall" :)

Serving lines inside the pool house

This is the one lone picture I have of the actual retreat in full swing. The rest were taken by Kelly, our resident photographer, and turned out beautifully! (Those will eventually be posted to our Maiden's Quest website.)

Because of the Lord's great goodness, the retreat went wonderfully well! He answered so many prayers to make this retreat possible. He blessed everyone with safety in travel over many miles of road. (One family drove all the way from Massachusets!) He allowed all our electronic equipment to run perfectly without a glitch and He caused the whole weekend to run as smoothly as possible without one hurdle to jump over!

The girls who attended seemed to enjoy the whole event tremendously and many came to us throughout the retreat to tell us how encouraged they were in their walk with the Lord. I think many feel alone in the beliefs they hold and the paths they have chosen, so the fellowship and encouraging messages was just what they needed.

May the Lord's name be praised!

After the retreat was over on Saturday evening, Mr. Sadler took us out on his boat and we had a blast tubing down the river! It was the perfect way to end such a wonderful weekend together.

All of us girls at the end of the day

I am so grateful to the Lord for the gift of such a week in Virginia with such dear, dear friends. Saying goodbye was hard. The memories of our time together are ones that I will cherish forever. And the opportunity to minister the encouragement of Jesus to such precious young ladies was a joy.

I have come away from our time in Virginia so refreshed by the Lord. Throughout the whole experience, I felt the sunshine of His love poured out abundantly, and again learned the truth of the verse, "He is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we could ask or think - to Him be glory."

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Nanny Adventures - Episode 2

Even though it was only my third day on the job, I decided to be brave and attempt an outing this morning with all four children.
Destination: local library.

I'm happy to report that the whole endeavor was a very smooth, calm, peaceful experience...relatively speaking.

At least, until the final 5 minutes.

After checking out our stack of books, I shifted the baby on my hip to accomodate draping both a diaper bag and a heavy book bag over my shoulder.

Ding-a-ling!
Of course, my phone had to ring right then.
Checking the number on the screen, I decided I should answer it since the number indicated a call from the childrens' father.
"Hello?" I said.
Right then, Hannah whispered, "You have to take your phone outside!"
Sure enough, there I was, answering my phone right in front of a little yellow sign stating, "Please turn off all cell phones or answer calls ouside." Oops.
"Can you hold on just a second?" I asked Mr. Goad.
Making sure Zion and Jessica had a firm grip on Hannah's elbows (since she was carrying a stack of books herself), and juggling a baby, two big bags, and a cell phone myself, we proceeded out the automatic doors, across the parking lot, and to the van. I learned that buckling a baby into a car seat while cradling a cell phone in my shoulder wasn't too hard and so the telephone conversation continued. I had to chuckle to myself when I learned that point of the call was simply to inform me regarding some leftovers in the fridge that we could have for lunch.
Leftovers I had already discovered four hours earlier that morning.
*smile*

I have to admit, that even including the final 5-minute 3-ring circus act, I was mighty pleased with the results of our first outing all together.
Next time, I'll be sure to give heed to important yellow signs wherever we go. :-)

Fussiness Solved

Today I learned that Baby Ethan has been cutting 8 teeth these past few days.
No wonder he's been so fussy!
Poor little guy. Having 8 sharp teeth poking through your gum is certainly no picnic.
Due to the arrival of all these lovely pearly whites last night, my little charge was back to being a happy camper all day!
Hurray!

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Nanny Adventures - Episode 1

"Weeping may endure for a morning, but joy cometh after nap-time."
- Katrina's Paraphrase of Psalm 30:5

Day 2 on the job started out great.
I arrived on time, began breakfast preparations, and put away clean dishes. As bacon sizzled in the oven and eggs bubbled on the stove, sleepy children were awakened and called to the table. Breakfast passed peacefully and then it was on to the morning routine - clean diapers, clean clothes, clean teeth, combed hair, and a few simple chores. Hannah (age 9) left for her day's outing with a friend, and the little ones played. There was no bickering, no disobedience, and only 2 spills - thankfully, it was only water both times.
A good morning.

Somewhere, along the way to lunch, things changed.
The baby, Ethan (age 1), who has been fussy these last couple of days due to a cold, decided he had had enough of life outside of his crib. It was time for bed. End of discussion.

The problem was, his nanny didn't recognize this fact soon enough. As his fussiness and the accompanying volume of noise in the house escalted, I tried everything to bring a bit of happiness and peace.
Water bottle.
Cold wash cloth.
Fun toy.

Waaa-aaaa!

Meanwhile, I set up a painting activity on the kitchen table for Zion (age 2) and Jessica (age 4) hoping it would pique their interest so I could make lunch.

Waaa-aaaa!

I picked Ethan up. He fussed.
I put him on the floor. He fussed.
I tried feeding him his formula bottle. He sucked most of it down, but then tossed it aside. Not interested.
Waaa-aaaa!

Lord, give me patience!

Since he seemed to indicate that he wanted to be with me while I attempted to make lunch in the kitchen, I tried strapping Ethan into the baby carrier on my back. That was a flopped attempt since I couldn't seem to get him and it on me at the same time. So we switched to the front. After what seemed like 10 minutes of trying to work with the silly contraption, I finally got the straps buckled! At last! Success!
Waa-aaaa!
Urgh.

Beginning to feel that nap-time was becoming absolutely essential, despite the fact he hadn't eaten any solid food yet, I hastened to put sheets on Zion's bed (which is in Ethan's room) in preparation for nap-time. As I dashed through the kitchen with an armload of sheets and a fussy baby in my kangaroo pouch, I was grateful to see that my other young charges were actually managing to keep most of the paint on the paper!

Just for the record, let me say that putting sheets on a toddler bed with a crying baby strapped to your front is not the best idea in the world - nor the easiest. When Ethan's cries escalated to those of desperation, I felt rather desparate myself! I took off the baby carrier, cuddled him for a moment, then tucked him in his crib. Immediately, the crying ceased, his thumb found his mouth, and my poor little baby was soon fast asleep.

Meanwhile, back in the kitchen, there were pictures to be admired, paint to wipe off the table, and lunch to be made. When we finally sat down to eat, I was spent. I felt like I had just emerged from a storm. The calm was welcome!

It was at that moment that little Jessica piped up.
"It sure is a beautiful day..." (looking out the window)
"Yes, it is," I responded, biting into an apple with a crunch.
"And a special one," Jessica continued.
"Yes, it is, " I said. "Why do you say it's a special one, Jess?"
She turned to look at me with big, serious eyes.
"Because you're here, " she said simply.

I gazed back at this precious, golden haired child, hardly believing I just heard what she said.
She kept looking back at me intently like she wanted me to know she meant every word.

In that moment, all the difficulty of the last two hours melted away. How very like the Lord to send a message of His love just when I needed it most.
I blinked hard.
"Thanks, Jessica. That's sweet of you to say."

From then on, the rest of my day went fabulously.

Back from the Land of Silence


The season of rest is over for the time being. Life is once again keeping me busy from dawn until dusk. I have much to share and post here on my blog, but my days are now so full that time for blogging is hard to find!
Funny how quickly things change. :-)

Due to the fact that my sister is departing for Ukraine in a short time, I have, as of this week, begun serving in her stead as nanny for the Goad children. Call me the nanny summer substitue. :)

With two days in my new job behind, and twenty-nine to go, I can already tell you several facts:
1) The children are of the most loveable sort
2) I am going to learn a lot about mothering
3) God is going to build the quality of patience into my life like never before
*smile*

Stay tuned for upcoming episodes in the Nanny Adventures series!